Before we got together, he had acquired about 50 foot fetish magazines. He has used them on a few occasions and now my jealousy has grown from just despising women in his magazines to despising all women on TV that coot his 'type'. I have asked him to remove all of his magazines from the house, because I feel that if I want him not to look at other women sexually, then he should comply.
Was it wrong of me to ask him to get rid of all of his magazines, and how can I stop feeling jealous of women on TV? A lot of women strongly dislike the idea of having pin-ups or pornography in the house - though others don't mind. After all, he could always look at the stuff elsewhere. As to your jealousy of other women on TV, that's another matter.
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Let's see what Christine suggests. Ok, well, nce of all, your man had this fetish before you took up with him, so there really seems little point in feeling jealous of that, or of expecting him to change totally. He probably enjoys it and thinks it's harmless.
Well, it worries me that you feel it's ok to demand that he s rid of these mags. Most good relationships get along better when couples can discuss things and agree important issues collaboratively.
But that doesn't seem to be what's happening here. Issuing demands to men rarely works well.
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Of course, some experts might disagree with me and say that if a man is having a romantic and loving sexual relationship with a woman then he should have no need of magazines. Well, maybe they would have a point, but realistically, I think if you stay with this man, you may have to compromise. And he should compromise too in keeping the magazines hidden and only using them on rare occasions.
But it's the next part of your question that worries me more — just as it worries David. You simply cannot expect that your man will never look at another woman 'sexually' fot this Skaneateles NY housewives personals in the bus queue, on TV, ffoot in magazines.
If you have a wonderful relationship, it would be vor to hope that he never acts on his Looking for a nice girl who doesn t mind a foot fetish impulses, but it is completely irrational to expect that he will stop having them or indeed that he can stop looking at all foof women.
If you really expect this, or if your jealousy is making you unhappy all the time, I agree with David that you need professional help with this. You might want to look at our factsheet called ' Who to contact for sex therapy '. You'll see that you might get help on the NHS. Or perhaps you would favour low-cost counselling with Relate.
That would probably be a good start and easiest to arrange. Meanwhile, I also think it would help you to read some good books on self-esteem and to look closely at your own Women seeking casual sex Beach Lake Pennsylvania and to try to improve it in all sorts of ways so that it seems happier and more fulfilled to you.
If, however, after trying these various things that we have suggested, you are still plagued by jealousy, then my recommendation would be that you try to get some cognitive behaviour therapy CBT. Now, we don't know where you live - and the provision of this kind of therapy on the NHS varies enormously from area to area - but it would be worth Looking for a nice girl who doesn t mind a foot fetish with your doctor how to get this type of help.
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