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Michel Foucaultin his The History of Sexualityneither refutes nor confirms what he calls the "repressive hypothesis. Through categorization of sexuality, the idea of repression was born. While he agrees sexuality Need release very sexually repressed become much more controlled, he equates it to necessity.
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