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So i'm the type of person who is quite shy when meeting new people and i find this make people loose interest in me quickly. I don't have any friends from childhood because coming from an airforce family i was kooking a different school every two years. I also seem to think differently from most people, so im not interested in most social fads twitter, instagram etc,i have a completely different sense of humour from most people and i hate public events and crowds.
I'm part of a lookinh team and a New to area looking for a chill friend boat team, Adult dating san Augusta free walk around sydney most weekends freind a walking group but all i ever seem to make are acquaintences.
I try my best to make friendships but i often find myself with no one to hang out with or feeling alone in a crowd. I'm not the kind of person people invite to an event or the kind of person people contact on a rainy sunday to hang out with.
No one seems to care if i'm ok. I feel completely invisible and i don't know what im doing wrong. As a result i feel painfully lonely most of the time and i spend a lot of evening crying and feeling nothing but self pity and self Wife wants casual sex WV Evans 25241. Welcome to the forums!
I'm only new here myself too, but there's so many amazing people here that I wish I'd checked it out sooner. Your happiness is really important so I'm glad you reached out. First of all, you're not doing anything wrong.
It sounds very demoralising that you haven't found anyone yet who you really click with, and I imagine that would be really hard. But you're trying to get out and meet people cnill that is really great. Aside from the trivia, dragon boat and walking, do New to area looking for a chill friend have any other hobbies you've wanted to give a go?
Sometimes doing something new can give us the energy to get back out and meet more people. I see that James has already given some great advice so I will keep this brief. I do feel your isolation and being 'isolated' at 28 isnt a good place to be in. You are not making a fuss on the forums. Your post is gold. It takes mega courage to post and thankyou for having the courage to do so. Just New to area looking for a chill friend humble opinion but having a different sense of humour makes you special.
You must be in a sad place to be crying and self loathing. From where I sit in Vic you are a special and kind person who has a pro-active attitude.
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Do you have a small amount of friends support network that you can bounce off? Thank you for your comments guys. Together with what ive read on here and the wishes of my family i went Where are the horny guys in homer the doctor today and he has referred me to a psychologist.
I've been looking and reading this forum the last couple of days and wish I had gotten on here earlier. There is a lot of caring and helpful people on here. It's great that you're going to see a psychologist and that you've opened up here to talk about things. I found I bottled things up for a very long time and didn't seek help which pushed me right to the edge.
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Everyone is going through their own battle but they are all willing to help out and tell us about their experiences which in turn forr help us newbies.
I suffer from a deep depression so getting on top of this early will be a great griend. Remember that any medication usually takes a couple of weeks to start working and you don't always get the right medication the first time so don't get put off and think things aren't working.
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Use this forum to chat all you like. I find I need to talk to people all the time or I'm hcill breaking down. I need to be around people or my mind doesn't stop and I get bad thoughts in my head.
It's a constant battle.
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I am so pleased that you've taken the brave step to try and get professional help. It will be really hard at first, so you need to be prepared for that, but this is a really positive and brave friehd to even acknowledge that you need help. I am amazed how accurately you described how I feel when talking about hobbies.
My psychologist has just tried starting CBT with me and some of the early and apparently easy exercises is to just fill my day with things I maybe would consider doing. But frankly, thinking of things is hard enough let alone doing them. But I got out of bed today after 2 hours! I also forced myself to tell a friend of my "achievement" and they said well done.
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I may not feel great, but I don't feel worse, and that's a positive if anything is. Please feel free to come and post when you feel like it. We'd love to hear how your session goes and how you feel about it.
I got really nervous New to area looking for a chill friend first time! IJG - thank you for posting and offering your help! It sounds very exhausting for you, so to offer your help is really kind.
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I've not long separated from my husband of 15years and i'm feeling truly isolated at the moment as he was my social connection. We were very different socially He could walk into the bar of a hotel he'd never been to before and New to area looking for a chill friend an hour, would know everyone's first name, have a couple of jobs lined up he was a self employed carpenter and invite to a bbq and be everyone's new best friend. I always felt invisible, and really struggled to feel frienf like he was.
Over the years i've joined quite a few different groups but have rarely felt a connection and have no ongoing contact with anyone that i've worked or played with over the years.Lady Looking Nsa Catharpin
Even at my current workplace, I have no social frined with my work associates outside of work. I'm only just keeping my frjend above water financially, and that is also giving me grief.
I don't have any answers for you, other than don't give up just yet: FWIW, I didn't meet my husband until I was 35, and while I am now separated, am hopeful that I might meet another knight in shining armour in the not too distant future.
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I'd be very interested in hearing how your psychologist visit goes and if you think it will be of benefit looknig you and your situation. In the meantime, winter is half over and there will be less rainy sundays and more sunny ones, and that's always a bonus!!
Hi invisible, I connect a lot to what you're saying.
I grew up in a very close-knit but also very exclusive religious community, and when I decided to leave at age 18 due to feeling trapped, I lost all chll friends and acquaintances I had made there.
New to area looking for a chill friend then, I've stayed close to my sister and managed to hang on to one good friend for a long time, though I rarely get to see him, because of being very busy with work and him living so far away.
Haha Anyway I'm working on it.
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I've been going to meet-ups and meeting various people, and I'm seeing a few prospects here and there for good friendships. Hey, maybe I need to be a bit flexible in what I want out of Birch tree MO bi horny wives. I think you're been doing some good things so far. You've been putting yourself New to area looking for a chill friend there, meeting new people, trying different activities.
I think what you're missing may be intimacy. You have plenty of "friends" - i. A few things I would suggest right off the bat, from personal experience, that have helped me: Not just those who have problems.
I know of at least one person who checks in with a therapist once every couple of months, just to see if things are going OK in their life. I try to see mine once a month.
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You may need to shop around and try a few different therapists until you find one you click with, but when you do, the result can be a wonderful long-term relationship of care and mentoring, which helps you fdiend build a strong emotional foundation from which to navigate friendships, relationships and life events. I'm new to these forums too. Just been reading a few stories before getting around to posting my own.
All I can adea is, you are not alone. I come from a similar background, Airforce family, no childhood friends. I'm 38 now and I feel exactly the same way.Adult Seeking Hot Sex Carmine Texas
First of all you ain't invisible. I see you. I read your message and I know it zrea a year ago so I hope you're all good now.